Life, Fate, and Destiny

I believe in fate and destiny. I believe that I have had to live the life I have lived with all the good and all the mistakes to make me into the person I am today. I wouldn't change one thing. I know that Big A is my soul mate and yes I'm old fashioned, I believe there is only one other soul that matches up perfectly with your own. At my high school reunion, I got talking to a girl that now lives in NYC. And, man, I'm a girl that LOVES that city. When I was in college, I really wanted to move there. I had every intention of it. But, I got a job here and I met him, so in the end I was right where I was meant to be. My husband and I sometimes talk about things like that. We both believe that we are each others soul mate. He was married once before and he knows the difference of being with someone you are meant to be with rather than just being with someone. Anyways, I digress. We always will put the scenario out there, and he'll say "what if I would have never moved here, what if I would have stayed in Nebraska?" and my response is always "I guess I probably would have gone to school in Nebraska." Or I'll put out there "what if I would have found a job in New York?" and he'll respond with "I would have found one too and we still would have met." And we believe it. It was our destiny to be with each other. Life happened the way it did so we are together now but I truly believe if we had been dealt different cards that he and I would both have ended up with each other. SO, what do you believe in? Is there someone out there for everyone? Is there are a destiny for everyone to have a certain life? I think so and no matter what I thought I wanted for my life at a certain time, I know I'm exactly where I'm supposed to be now with the love of my life and you never know what cards we are going to be dealt in the future, we could end up moving to New York, or Colorado, or, or, or....